Anonymous asked: What do you think is the fastest way to get over an ex besides getting under someone else ?
Well I didn’t get under anyone this time around and I’m did just fine :)
I think acceptance is definitely the first step. You just need to accept that it’s over and what you guys had is long gone. Once that’s through just let yourself cry it out, if it’s months down the road and you feel like crying over it, let it happen. Don’t over think or label yourself as weak, your body has it’s own ways of getting over things and I think letting it out is perfect. If you get fed up with crying that’s when you should find things to distract yourself, for me.. School was key. I drowned myself in my studies and I’ve been doing amazing. Like I have never seen so many A’s in my life. I’m very proud of myself. If school isn’t enough for you, get a job or just go out more often with friends. Distractions are everything and before you know it. You’re not thinking about them like you used to. When you hear their name you don’t cringe anymore. You’ve accepted your reality and moved on and got to know yourself. I think being single is a beautiful journey. It’s my first time being single since I’ve been an adult aka over 18 and it’s nice for me. Talk to new guys and flirt with them, you don’t even need to have intentions of really going out with them or hooking up. Delete all old photos, don’t torture yourself by listening to sad fucking music like I never understood that. Don’t do it to yourself. Get out of the house. (:
Hope I helped you love.